How to Tell If a Cat Has Chosen You
Cats are known for being independent and enigmatic, but when one chooses you as their person, they exhibit clear and consistent signs of affection and trust. Recognizing these signals not only helps deepen your bond but also assures you that your feline companion sees you as 'their human.'
1. Constant Presence Around You
- If your cat follows you from room to room or seems to always want to be in your vicinity, it’s a strong indicator they feel safe and bonded with you.
- They may sit outside the bathroom door while you shower or wait by the window for you to return home.
2. Purring and Physical Affection
- Cats purr when they are content and relaxed. If your cat purrs loudly when you pet them or simply when they’re near you, it’s a sign they enjoy your presence.
- Other forms of affection include headbutting, kneading you with their paws, or lying on your chest or lap.
3. Grooming Behavior
- If a cat chooses you, they may try to groom you, lick your hand, or even nibble gently — mimicking the behavior they use with other cats they trust.
- This is a bonding ritual and a strong indicator of affection.
4. Eye Contact and Slow Blinks
- In cat language, prolonged eye contact followed by a slow blink is the equivalent of a kiss. If your cat offers this, they are expressing comfort and love.
- Returning the slow blink can deepen the emotional connection between you and your pet.
5. Bringing 'Gifts'
- Though often unpleasant, if your cat brings you birds, mice, or toys, it's a sign of trust and affection. They are sharing their 'hunt' with you.
- Indoor cats may bring you toys or random objects they find around the house as a token of their affection.
6. Sleeping Near or On You
- Cats are most vulnerable when they are sleeping, and choosing you as their nap spot shows deep trust.
- If your cat curls up next to you—or better yet, on your lap or chest—they see you as a safe and comforting presence.
7. Exposing Their Belly
- When a cat lies on its back and exposes its belly, it is signaling ultimate trust. While not necessarily an invitation for belly rubs, it shows they feel secure.
- This behavior is rare and often reserved for their favorite humans.
8. Responding to Your Voice
- Another clear sign is when your cat comes to you when called, responds to your voice with meows, or seems calm and reassured just by your presence.
- This indicates attachment and recognition of you as a source of comfort.
9. Scent Marking You
- Cats have scent glands around their face and forehead. When they rub against you, they are marking you with their scent—claiming you as their own.
- This is a common behavior among cats who feel closely bonded with someone.
10. Tail Signals of Affection
- If your cat approaches you with their tail upright and a slight curve at the end, it’s a clear sign of friendly intent.
- The tail can be a great emotional barometer; a gently flicking or calmly waving tail often signals contentment when they’re near you.
Conclusion
A cat that has chosen you will offer a unique blend of independence and affection. Unlike dogs, cats may not always be overt with their love, but their behavior speaks volumes. From following you around to slow blinking and scent marking, cats show their bond in subtle—yet deeply meaningful—ways. Understanding and appreciating these signs can foster a more harmonious and rewarding relationship between you and your feline friend.
