Understanding Why the Pekingese is Called the 'Heartbreak Breed'
The Pekingese, a majestic toy dog breed from China, is historically celebrated for its royal lineage and unique charm. Revered by Chinese nobility and often nestled in the sleeves of aristocrats’ robes, this breed continues to captivate dog lovers around the world. But behind its elegance and stoic grace lies a reputation that tugs at the heartstrings — the Pekingese is known as the 'heartbreak breed'.
What Makes the Pekingese the 'Heartbreak Breed'?
This nickname does not imply emotional manipulation, but rather the deep bond this breed forms with its owners, combined with a higher propensity for complex health issues and, at times, early loss. The emotional devastation experienced by owners upon the illness or passing of a Pekingese has led to its poignant nickname.
Royal Origins and Enduring Appeal
Originating in ancient China, the Pekingese was a companion to Chinese emperors and palace nobility. They were regarded as sacred and symbolic of Buddhist lion protectors. Their royal status translated into a demeanor that is proud, sometimes aloof, but always dignified. Modern Pekingese maintain these regal traits, often forming strong attachments to a single person.
Physical Characteristics
- Height: 6–9 inches (15–23 cm)
- Weight: Typically 7–14 pounds (3.2–6.4 kg); dogs under 6 pounds are called “sleeves”
- Coat: Long, flowing double coat resembling a lion’s mane
- Color Varieties: Cream, black, red, fawn, sable, white, and more
- Distinct Traits: Large, expressive eyes; a flat, black muzzle; heavily feathered ears and tail
Temperament and Socialization
Pekingese are celebrated for their loyalty, intelligence, and independence. They are:
- Devoted to their owners but selective in giving affection
- Wary of strangers unless well-socialized
- Good with older children but not ideal for toddlers
- Alert, territorial, and may bark when sensing disturbances
Early socialization and consistent, reward-based training are crucial in shaping well-behaved family members. They can be stubborn but respond well to gentle guidance and praise.
Grooming and Maintenance
One of the most demanding aspects of Pekingese care is grooming. Their elegant coat requires:
- Brushing several times a week to prevent matting
- Frequent cleaning of facial folds to avoid skin problems
- Regular bathing, ear cleaning, dental care, and nail trims
- Optional trims for easier maintenance, but coat should not be cropped severely
Exercise Needs
Pekingese have low to moderate exercise requirements. A pair of short, leisurely walks per day and occasional play sessions indoors suffice. Due to their flat-faced (brachycephalic) anatomy, overexertion—especially in heat—can be dangerous.
Owners should monitor:
- Breathing during activity
- Hydration levels
- Access to shade and cool resting places
Health Considerations
The breed’s architecture makes them prone to a range of health issues, which contributes to their “heartbreak” reputation. These include:
- Brachycephalic airway syndrome: breathing difficulty
- Ocular issues: corneal ulcers, dry eye, and ingrown eyelashes
- Cardiac concerns: mitral valve disease
- Spinal problems: like intervertebral disc disease
- Skin fold dermatitis due to facial structure
- Joint issues: luxating patella, hip dysplasia
Regular vet visits, weight management, and careful grooming significantly improve quality of life. Owners must support both chest and rear when lifting the dog and prevent jumping from heights to protect their spine.
Nutrition and Diet
The ideal diet includes:
- High-quality food tailored to toy breeds
- Specialized formulas for age and activity level
- Limited treats and avoid table scraps
Puppies need high-protein puppy kibble, while older dogs may benefit from joint-support or weight-control formulas. Monitoring calorie intake is crucial, as these dogs are prone to obesity.
A Lifelong Commitment
Pekingese typically live between 12 and 15 years with proper care. While they make excellent companions for the right owners, their complex grooming needs, potential health issues, and emotional attachment demand commitment.
Is a Pekingese Right for You?
Potential owners should consider:
- Do you have time and ability to meet grooming needs?
- Are you ready for potential vet bills and health challenges?
- Can you offer a calm, loving home with attention and structure?
For those who answer “yes,” the Pekingese rewards you with unwavering affection, regal companionship, and daily moments of joy. But with these rewards often come heartache, especially when health issues strike—making its sobriquet as the 'heartbreak breed' all too real.





