Understanding Cat Winks: Should You Wink Back at Your Feline Friend?
Anyone who has spent time with a cat has likely noticed them squinting or slowly closing one eye in what appears to be a wink. While it may seem odd at first, this subtle form of feline communication can speak volumes. But what does it mean, and should you reciprocate this gesture?
What Is a Cat Wink?
Cats don’t wink in the same sense humans do. A cat wink, usually manifested as a slow blink or a one-eye close, is a relaxed and calm signal. It's a way your cat communicates affection and indicates trust.
- Slow blinking in cats is referred to as a “cat kiss.”
- It often occurs when a cat is comfortable and feels safe.
- It's different from an involuntary eye twitch or health-related eye movement.
What Does It Mean When a Cat Winks at You?
Your cat’s wink is most likely a sign of friendliness and calmness. When a cat slowly blinks or winks at you, it is:
- Showing trust — in the feline world, closing their eyes near someone is a huge compliment. They’re vulnerable when they close their eyes, so if they do it around you, it signals comfort.
- Saying ‘hello’ or acknowledging your presence — it's their non-verbal way of greeting you warmly.
- Demonstrating affection — it's their way of showing they appreciate you without physical contact.
Should You Wink Back?
Yes! Winking or slow blinking back at your cat can help strengthen your bond and reinforce your cat’s trust in you.
- Mimicking body language is key in animal communication. Responding to their signals in kind helps build mutual understanding.
- It's calming — engaging in such gentle interactions can soothe both you and your cat.
- It enhances your relationship — cats that feel safe are more likely to seek out humans who engage in positive non-verbal communication.
How to Properly Wink Back at Your Cat
- Make eye contact with your cat in a relaxed manner.
- Slowly and gently close your eyes for about a second or two, then reopen them.
- Don’t stare aggressively into their eyes; keep your expression neutral and relaxed.
Repeating this behavior occasionally lets your cat know that you understand and respect their communication style.
When Not to Wink Back
Although rare, there are situations when a cat’s wink may not be a social cue. It's good to be aware of signs that may indicate a health issue:
- Frequent one-eye winking could be a sign of irritation, a corneal abrasion, or conjunctivitis.
- Discharge, swelling, or redness accompanying the wink should be evaluated by a vet.
Other Non-Verbal Ways to Bond With Your Cat
- Gently blinking – as discussed, excellent for communicating peace and affection.
- Sitting near them without petting – shows you respect their space.
- Providing enrichment toys – stimulates their mind and reinforces your role as a positive presence.
- Using a calm voice – though cats respond more to tone than words, soothing tones matter.
The Science Behind Cat Communication
Researchers have confirmed that slow blinking in cats is a social bonding tool. According to a 2020 study published in Nature Scientific Reports, cats responded more positively to owners who initiated slow blinking. The study revealed that cats were more likely to approach people who mimicked their slow blink behavior.
Conclusion
So, should you wink back at your cat? Absolutely. This simple act of mimicking your cat’s behavior not only encourages a deepened bond but also demonstrates mutual respect and trust. It’s one of the easiest and most natural ways to show your feline friend that you love and understand them.
Just remember to watch for signs that the wink might be due to a medical issue, and when in doubt, consult your vet. Otherwise, keep those slow blinks coming—it’s a silent love language your cat will truly appreciate.
