How to Tell If You're Your Dog's Favorite Person
Dogs are deeply social animals, forming strong attachments to those they trust and love. While we all like to think we're our dog's favorite person, there are several signs that can give you clear insight. Understanding the reasons why dogs exhibit certain affectionate behaviors can help affirm your special bond.
1. They Sit on You Often
One of the most telling signs that you’re your dog’s favorite human is their tendency to sit on you. Dogs sit on people for multiple reasons, many rooted in affection and emotional connection. Puppies are born into the warmth and contact of their litter and mother. As adults, they often seek to replicate that comfort by being physically close to their humans.
This behavior can show:
- Bonding: Your dog is reinforcing its emotional connection with you.
- Security: Being on you makes them feel safe, especially during stressful events like thunderstorms or fireworks.
- Comfort: Your body warmth provides physical comfort, especially in colder environments.
2. Affectionate Breeds Love Contact
Some breeds naturally crave closeness. Whether it's a small lap dog like a Chihuahua or a large breed like a Great Dane, their consistent attempts to sit on you may indicate deep attachment. Dogs like Golden Retrievers, Labs, and Bernese Mountain Dogs are known for their people-oriented personalities and may single someone out as their favorite.
3. They Use Scent to 'Claim' You
Dogs have scent glands in various parts of their bodies. Sitting on you may be their way of spreading their scent, particularly in environments with other animals. This turf-marking behavior can be a subtle way of saying, "This human is mine." If your dog routinely chooses you over all others in the house, it's a strong indicator of favoritism.
4. Reinforced Behavior and Learned Affection
Dogs learn through experience and repetition. If sitting on you has led to pets, treats, or cuddles in the past, your dog now knows you're a reliable source of love and joy. Through these positive reinforcements, you may have unknowingly trained your dog to choose you over others.
5. Separation Anxiety and Velcro Behavior
Does your dog follow you from room to room, or show signs of anxiety when you prepare to leave? These behaviors, which stem from separation anxiety, suggest a deep emotional reliance. Your dog feels safest around you and may become distressed when you're not around. Constant closeness and following are strong signs of favoritism.
6. Favoritism May Be In Their Genes
Certain breeds have historically been companion dogs, bred to work closely with humans—physically and emotionally. Vizslas, for instance, are sometimes called "Velcro dogs" due to their constant need for touch. Your dog’s breed may naturally predispose it to develop a strong preference for one individual.
7. Attention-Seeking Behaviors
Sometimes, dogs sit on their owners to get something. This could be playtime, food, or simply your undivided attention. If your dog consistently chooses you to initiate these interactions, it’s a clear sign you’re No. 1 in their heart.
8. Dominance or Protective Behavior
Though less common, some dogs use this behavior to assert dominance or protect you from other pets or people. If your dog exhibits resource guarding or aggressive behavior alongside sitting on you, it may be trying to ensure you're "claimed." While this may be a sign of favoritism, it’s one that might require training or professional guidance.
9. Signs of Boredom or Playfulness
Sitting on you could be your dog’s way of saying, "Let’s do something!" Dogs that are bored or eager to engage often seek proximity to the person who usually plays or exercises with them. If that’s you, your dog likely sees you as their favorite companion and playmate.
10. Your Dog’s Behavior Changed Suddenly
If a previously aloof dog begins to sit on you frequently, this could signal a deeper shift. It might indicate growing emotional trust, or, in rare cases, an underlying health issue. Always consider new behaviors in the wider context of your dog’s overall health and habits.
Reading the Signals
If your dog demonstrates many of the behaviors above—especially consistently choosing your company, seeking comfort, yearning for your attention, and showing protective tendencies—you likely are their favorite person. This relationship is built on trust, affection, and mutual understanding.
Strengthen the Bond
- Positive reinforcement: Reward interactions that promote closeness and affection.
- Good communication: Understand your dog’s cues and respond appropriately.
- Routine: Consistency gives your dog confidence and security.
- Quality time: Walks, play, and cuddles reinforce your position as their favorite human.
Recognizing and nurturing this special relationship can lead to a happier and more balanced life for both of you.
